Like the time you think your dad told a hilarious story– but you can’t hear him on the video. Or the time young Sarah– or was it Matthew?– kept talking about “Santa Paws”. Hard to tell which, because whoever’s face is too dark to see. And let’s not even talk about the video you shot of the lights and place settings and decorations and presents and…um…hardly any people at all.
Shouldn’t your Holiday video bring back memories… of the Holiday? Of course it should. And from now on it will. Just follow these 10 tips for great holiday video:
1. Spare us the scenery: Holidays are about memories, and memories are about people. In ten years, nobody’s going to beg you to haul out “that great video—you know, the one with the fireplace and logs and stuff!” But the one where Eric got Gretchen that sexy underwear and she poured eggnog over his head? You’ll play that one a lot. By all means shoot the lovely place settings, the tree, the outside of the house decked with menorahs—but remember that unless they’re really unusual this year, they’re each good for a maximum of 5 seconds of screen time.
2. Don’t shoot until you see the whites of their eyes: If our memories are about people, people are about their faces. We don’t just talk with our faces, we show our complete personalities with what goes on in our eyes, our foreheads, those creases around our mouths. Remember the face, and you’ll remember the time. Another reason to focus on faces– your 4-year old daughter’s face will be completely different next year. And, sadly, so will yours.
3. Zoom with your feet. Don’t shoot from across the room . Zoom lenses make your picture shaky, and the more zoomed your lens is the less light it sees. Instead, turn off the zoom and walk closer. You’ll also get better sound—there’s no such thing as a zoom microphone.
4. Change your angle: We tend to hold the camera at chest height all the time so we can see the monitor screen. But that’s not always the best way to tell the story. Might you get a better view of the table full of relatives if you raise the camera over your head? What if you get on the floor with the kids when they open presents? Different angles make more interesting video.
5. Ask questions: And make them open-ended questions. Not “Do you like the tree?” (answer: “Yes, Mom” then silence) but “Susie– tell me about where the tree came from” or “Grandpa, what was Hanukah like when you were little?” Don’t forget the interviews!
6. Shoot first, yell later: Which story are you more likely to tell—the time you had a perfect Christmas and everyone was very nice and polite, or the time your son “helped” the cat climb the tree and the whole thing fell over? Misbehavior makes great video. Unless someone needs first aid, make sure your camera doesn’t stop rolling until it’s over.
7. Represent your kids: Your three-year old can’t tell you what to shoot. But you’re a big part of his life—don’t forget to include yourself and your spouse in the video. Then every once in a while think about what you wish you had video of from your childhood, and shoot that. In 20 years your kids will be grateful for the memories you’ve preserved.
8. Careful of tricky holiday lighting. Candlelight, strings of colored lights, crackling flames—all very lovely, but frequently insufficient for shooting. It’s fine to try the romantic firelight shot, but if it looks dark in the monitor it won’t get magically less dark later. Turn on the overheads, pull over a floor lamp or open a window shade—whatever it takes for you to see a sharp, clear picture on your viewfinder
9. Use Ritual to your advantage: What are the things your family always does? Shoot at least a little of the annual trip to the tree farm, the out-of-control-latke party or family ice-skating debacle every year to make it easy to see how your family changes and grows over time.
10. Don’t try to hide the camera: Kids (and many adults) may be camera-shy, but they’ll be much worse if they think you’re trying to trick them into being filmed. Be obvious about shooting. Soon they’ll get bored with you and start acting natural.